In an effort to address the rising cases of femicide, Journalists for Human Rights (JHR) Kenya has established a safe space for men, allowing them to share their experiences and struggles in relationships. This platform aims to understand the root causes of violence and provide solutions to prevent men from resorting to harmful actions.
During the safe space meeting, One participant shared how he built a life with his wife, investing in assets together. However, after he was involved in a road accident, the woman changed, married another man, and transferred their jointly-owned property to her name.
Worse still, she further incited their children to physically assault him. Despite reporting the case to the chief, he found no assistance. Another man recounted how he couldn’t make decisions without his wife’s approval. When he suggested parting ways and co-parenting their daughter, the wife refused and even involved the police to intimidate him.
Experts believe that addressing family conflicts early is key to preventing violence. According to Marcelino Waithaka, a family expert, family issues are like firewood; they only need a matchstick to ignite, and when ignored, the fire spreads uncontrollably.
He emphasizes the importance of finding solutions early and not turning a blind eye. Joseph Otieno of Insight Glow, highlights the need for men to recognize red flags in relationships, bond with their children, and speak out about their struggles. He also calls on the government to pay attention to men’s issues, which are often neglected.
Tony Mwebia facilitator from JHR Kenya, explained that the purpose of the safe space is to gather men’s perspectives on the factors leading to femicide, and present them to the committee appointed by President William Ruto to tackle the issue.
Notably in January 2025 President William Ruto appointed a 42-member taskforce to address the rising cases of femicide and gender-based violence (GBV) in Kenya. The taskforce was tasked with assessing, reviewing, and recommending measures to strengthen institutional, legal, and policy responses to GBV and femicide across the country.Led by former Chief Justice Nancy Baraza, the taskforce includes professionals from various sectors, such as investigative journalist Franklin Wallah and Law Society of Kenya President Faith Odhiambo. The taskforce is expected to submit its findings to the President within 90 days.
By providing men with a platform to share their experiences and seek emotional support, JHR Kenya hopes to reduce toxic behaviors that contribute to femicide. The initiative encourages men to recognize their emotional distress and seek early intervention, fostering healthier relationships and preventing violence.
Experts and advocates urge the government and society to support men’s mental health and address family conflicts before they escalate into violence.
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